Superb exposition and sound defence, Tvc. You did well to get your partner to bird. Doesn't work with my missus, got her as far as garden birding but she will only very rarely look through bins, and never through a scope. I have (seriously) tried an extreme version of another tactic, i.e. I've mentioned possibly taking up golf and enquired about membership of a new local club (membership alone, sans green fees, is about 6,000 euro a year). I have absolutely no intention of ever holding a golf club, but I casually have left a golfing magazine (open on the price-list page for funky new sets of clubs) and letters from the golf club about membership, addressed to me, at strategic points around the theatre of operations (kitchen table and the like). Then, when asked about my intentions, casually mention an interest (but leave it to fester, and a few days later mention in resigned fashion that I probably don't have time to really learn and practise golf, given I'd have to give up birding. Manipulative? Moi? It worked once. It'll probably never work again, but it won't have to 'cos I have the ED82 and ED50 now