Bryon, I've tried blowing up and adjusting the image of the first swiftlet, and I'm not seeing the contrasting pale underparts and more uniform dark head of a typical Glossy Swiftlet. I'd also expect the tail to be shorter and squarer and contrast with the whitish belly. It looks more like one of the three echo-locating swiftlets to me. I don't think there are any other possibilities - Bornean/Cave Swiftlet (
linchi), if a full species, only occurs at high elevation and closely resembles Glossy, and it's not Waterfall Swiftlet either.
Re no. 4, I would say beware field guide illustrations! Bill length is variable in sunbirds, and Brown-throated generally has the shortest and straightest. If you blow up your image, you'll see that the bill is actually longer than it appears at first glance (partly broken?) and all-dark. It also shows the short square tail, red eye, broken yellow eye-ring (more of a double crescent and very distinctive), plain yellow underparts and olive-brown upperparts of Brown-throated.
https://singaporebirders.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/brown-throated-sunbird-zhd-21.jpg?w=477&h=718
https://c1.staticflickr.com/3/2887/12113643395_1b23368d60_b.jpg
https://www.hbw.com/sites/default/files/styles/ibc_2k/public/ibc/p/IMG_3268_1.jpg?itok=Qi8rBH9a