Probably less than half of the bins I've tried felt ok just putting them up to my eyes and using them.
Our faces are of many different shapes and sizes. Some of us hold binoculars differently, too.
I have two similar binoculars, Pentax 8x32 SP and ED. I believe that the ED has slightly more actual eye relief though they have the same eyecups. With the SP, I hold them very tight to my face, while with the ED I can relax a little. I got blackouts at first with the ED. There is also a difference in the curvature of the separate sides of the binocular when they are both set to the same IPD. It's slight, but it's there. I've had the SP longer, used it more, and it fits my hands more naturally. Because of this, I automatically try to adjust the ED down further than it should be every time I use it, which results in some blackout when panning. I actually bought one of those Vortex Binoc-Locs that holds your IPD. I thought it seemed corny, and felt dumb putting it on my bins-and it works great.
I had eye relief issues with the 10x42 Meopta Meostar, and even bought eyecups for a different model, trying to get it just right. Something inside a lens showing up in the view was my reason for returning them, but the eye relief was an issue, too. Proably nothing wrong with them, they just weren't fitting my face.
As you know, I have the 10x42 DLS right now, too. When using the fully extended position it looks fine to me, though I have to hold the cups very firmly against my eye sockets.
Sometimes it takes a little getting used to a new binocular. I got frustrated with my DCF ED several times the first couple of weeks I had it. Now that I automatically hold it "right", and have the IPD fixed, it's perfect.
Right now the underside of my brow is sore from the DLS eyecups, which are harder than what I'm used to, and have been used for several hours the last couple of days. Plus, I think I was really grinding my face into the binoculars, straining to see details with what is apparently a diopter issue. I'm sure they, or their replacement if I go that route, will be fine.
Guess what I'm saying is "they should just work" sounds good, but it doesn't always work out that way. Sometimes we have to adjust.
Looks like those collapsing eyecups are going to be a real problem for you, though. Good luck.