What I'm really looking for is a strobe type flash to stop action.
For true stop action photography TTL flashes are not required as you will need to use them in manual mode anyway. Depending on the required output TTL controlled flash burn times can be up to 1/1000s, still to long to freeze the action, and are hit and miss if the action is stopped or not.
Thus for motion stop hummer photography folks use the studio style set-up with often multiple flashs under manual control.
These are flash burn durations for a Nikon SB800 at the different manual power settings (note that "Flash brightness" is regulated by how long its burns, not by dimming the output):
1/1050 sec. at M1/1 (full) output
1/1100 sec. at M1/2 output
1/2700 sec. at M1/4 output
1/5900 sec. at M1/8 output
1/10900 sec. at M1/16 output
1/17800 sec. at M1/32 output
1/32300 sec. at M1/64 output
1/41600 sec. at M1/128 output
Knowing these "burn" times one can set a flash to the desired freeze time (e.g. 1/5900 s at M1/8 output) and make sure the other camera settings (primarily aperture and ISO) lead to correct exposure. On the down side the flash range at fast settings goes down (thus multiple flashes to not only light up the bird also for background etc.), but since the power isn't drained one can shoot at least a few frames in a row.
This site draws a good picture what is involved
http://www.rpphoto.com/howto/hummer/humguide1.asp.
One can also go crazy and get designated high speed flashs. They costs good money and require a studio setting (stands and powersupply).