Hello Black Crow,
The 10x32 Zeiss FL deserves inspection but she should try before she buys. It is neither big nor heavy with wide FOV and it has good eye relief.
The 10x32 Zeiss Conquest HD might be another suggestion, at a lower price but I have no experience with it. It has a little more eye relief, a larger FOV but it is a little heavier. Again try before you buy. I am basing these comments on published specifications.
Happy bird watching,