"If you don't need 20mm of eyerelief, the Tele Vue Nagler 13mm Type 6 might be a better choice than the 14mm XW. Smaller, lighter, wider apparent FOV and usually cheaper too."
Have you tried a type 6 Nagler on a spotter? I have. Both the 11 and 13mm type 6s. Though you're correct about the smaller, lighter, wider, and even cheaper part, ...they exhibit noticeable distortion. They won't work well with glasses, and are not waterproof. They also don't have that great infinitely adjustable eye cup that only XLs and XWs have. Neither Naglers nor XFs allow the rear section of the eye cup to be unscrewed exposing a 39mm thread for attaching digiscoping doo-dads directly, as on the XWs.
"The 10mm and 7mm XW are definitely the WRONG choice for this scope."
Why is that? Yeah the 7 will give too much mag but what's wrong with the 10? I wouldn't have it as my primary EP, I'd pick the XW14 for that, but it's a good option when 39x is usable and desirable. My brother keeps one on his PF65 and thinks it's great.
"The 8.5mm and 12mm XF's will give you a slightly wider TRUE FOV, are 2.5x lighter/smaller and at about 1/3 the price of a XW."
IMO the XFs aren't in the same league, at all. In the US the XWs are about twice the price of the XFs.
As inexpensive high power EPs go, one can use Plossls from say 8-12mm that can be had very inexpensively and are optically great. Yeah they have mediocre eye relief and most have a 50 degree AFOV but they'll get you to 40 or 50 or 60x with good sharpness for that occasional use. They are also quite small and can be tucked away easily and almost forgotten until you need that extra reach.