Binastro,
Thank you for sharing your experience with double stars. I am a double star enthusiast too, sometimes using a 5 inch f/12 D&G achromat, but usually observing with binoculars (7x50, 8x30, 10x56, 12x50 and 15x60), hand held but well braced in a supportive chair. I was driven to this decidedly unpopular pursuit by increasing light pollution at my home. This is the case especially in winter, when I suffer the combination of the sensationally brilliant lighting at the damnable outdoor hockey rink a quarter mile away, and snow on the ground which reflects back into the sky all the worse. Even in a remote location, I still observe my favorite doubles before delving into the faint objects that only the dark sky can reveal.
The quality of the binocular and the eyesight are limiting factors, but I find that lots of practice and patience are very important too. I suspect that even if had a 10x binocular with absolutely perfect image stabilization, I'd still need added support to split 14", simply because it takes a minute of concentrated effort to get that split, and unsupported, my arms would tire and interfere with my concentration. So I will not fault the 20x60 stabilization because you had to support it to split 6.5". If it will do that it is good enough for me. Although not having one, apparently I must not be good enough for it!
Ron