I am very glad Henry Link has chipped in here, as I have been thinking about creating a post on "the wasted light issue" with large exit pupils, as it, especially with the recent discussions of lower powered bins, is a bit of a bug bear of mine.
Below are a few points I have been thinking about, some obvious, but I hope they all link up to my final conclusions.
In reference to the brightness of an image, given the same glass formulas, a lower magnification will give a brighter image, no matter what the level of light that you are in - this is not just a dusk thing. The other main factor to the brightness of the image would be the objective size, the more light entering, the more intense the light that leaves through the exit pupil, therefore you need as much area of glass up the front end as you can carry to let as much in as you can.
The exit pupil/eye pupil matching scenario is often quoted as during daytime the extra area of the exit pupil is wasted as your eye cannot match the size, however I do not believe this to be wholly true. I didn't really know why, but hopefully I may have stumbled across a possible solution.
The retina is based up of lots of rods and cones as we know, but the most important part of this is the fovea, which is responsible for our sharp vision. The surrounding cells are less accurate and deal with our peripheral vision.
With this in mind, the diameter of the fovea is quoted at around 1mm to 1 1/2mm - the fovea is directly at the back of the eye so I imagine that most of the light to meet this travels in pretty much a straight line through the cornea,pupil,lens and vitreous humour. I imagine nature hasn't done many complex light bending tricks with our lens and on the whole likes straight lines.
Using the above information I therefore propose that an ideal (if you could line it up successfully) exit pupil would be the same diameter as the fovea, i.e. 1 to 1 1/2mm. Everything above this is peripheral.
I can therefore see why at night, if your eye pupil could expand sufficiently to match a large exit pupil that this could be of use to transmit more light to the back of your eye, but the fovea, which does not change it's size, will still generally only see the same area of light - it is the large exit pupil which is a by product of a big front end area of glass, a low power, or both that produces lots of light, and that is why the image is brighter given ALL conditions - the intensity of light is the issue, not the size of the exit pupil, the size of the exit pupil is just a by product.