It is not just about brightness with a bigger aperture. A bigger aperture is better.
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The image provided by the best current binoculars looks so good that it’s easy to fall into the assumption that binoculars are now so close to optical perfection that further improvement wouldn’t accomplish anything as it would be invisible to the eye. Every now and then I disabuse myself of...
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Wayne Mones expresses some wrong statements, and you use him as a source to support your statements.
Not only about eye people size and age, but also when he says this:
"A basic and immutable law of optics is that, all other things being equal, (magnification, quality, engineering, etc.) bigger objective lenses will give you a brighter, more satisfying view than smaller lenses. They will yield more detail and better color rendition than you can possibly obtain from smaller objectives. Big objective lenses allow you to see more detail in deep shadows."
This is simply wrong. Brightness depends on:
1: exit pupil (as long as you can make use of it)
2: light transmisson
Apart from that the kind of glass and coating can make some optics appear brighter for the eye than other despite the same transmission.
But it has nothing to do with the size of objective lens. It's about the eye beeing more sensitive for some wavelengths of light than others.
I think no one here oppose to that a larger exit pupil is more comfortable when it comes to eye placement. At the same time the most find a 1200 gram binocular being uncomfortable to handle and carry around compared to a 800 gram binocular.
The perceived difference becomes actually even bigger when the center of mass comes further away from the face with the larger model.
And this on expense of field of view.
Regarding glare I cannot comment because I have not compared that between 8x42s and 8x56s.
You say:
"But keep in mind that you can only use as much brightness as your eye will admit, so any binocular whose exit pupil is larger than your eye’s pupil (no need to quote the wrong about eye pupil size sourced from Wayne Mones) is probably providing more brightness than you can use -- even at night. So why bother schlepping these monsters around?
Because
it isn’t only about brightness."
So what do you really mean: is it about brightness at all or not?