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Message: <blockquote data-quote="pie" data-source="post: 1382803" data-attributes="member: 35255">To take the feeders down is outrageous, but her objections to feedings birds based on the increase of Feral Pigeons is fair enough.I'm sorry Deborah but it must be grim having them cooing & pooping outside her bedroom window. Not sure I would describe her actions as bullying. Based on the exchange of emails, I would say that you both put your case forward eloquently. You match on an intellectual level and both include attempts at conflict resolution.To be fair, she has no objection to discreet feeders, her main objection is the intrusion into her quality of life.I had a problem with F'Pigeons caused by using a seed mix with maize. It took months to eradicate the problem. Since then, I only use sunflower seeds, nuts and suet. The Pigeons never visit the garden now. Believe me Deborah, I am on your side and want to offer support as conflict can be very upsetting, please read her email again & pick out the positives.Good luck Deborah (and dont forget my sunflower tip)</blockquote>