I joined this forum this afternoon and this is the first thread I've read.
I'm a birder, and a photographer, and contribute regulary to other (mainly photography based) forum.
Whilst reading through this entire thread, I did take mild offence at some of the comments being made and started to formulate various replies in my head, but then, on reflection, that would just have been a knee jerk reaction and not constructive to the debate.
My humble opinion is that if birders and togs had just a little more consideration and understanding, then that would certainly help. A lot of those points, from both sides, are covered here, and I do believe that the sort of behaviour shown in the pictures is thankfully, rare. All togs I know are passionate about the wildlife they photograph - the well being of the subject is paramount.
I'm sure we've all been in a hide where cameras were firing off - equally, I'm sure we've all been there when a noisy group enters a hide asks 'What have you seen', then clatters off again.
If anyone reading this, whether birder, tog, or both, takes away just a little bit from this thread and uses it in the consideration of others, then Jane will have started a very useful thread indeed.