The close focus of the Yosemite is a drawback, but it's one well worth putting up with for the benefits you get. The BX-1 version will improve the close focus, but at the cost of eye-relief. The Yosemite 6x30 would be my choice given your criteria.
I should admit here that, though I always carry the Yosemite when out birding, I use an Olympus 8x25 PC I for watching my feeders. (It's called the Olympus Tracker in the US; Amazon have it for $52, which is very good value. The same bin from Amazon UK would cost me $75). I find I like the apparently huge image of the Olympus and, for feeder-watching, don't mind the smaller FOV.
However, though the Yosemite seems light and small and neat to me, my wife thinks it too heavy. And when we took a friend of hers out birding, she liked the Olympus, which we leant her, but when I offered her the Yosemite to try, she said she could never use anything so big and heavy!
Some women, like my wife, insist on tiny, ultra-lightweight bins (87g in her case!) while others are happy to lug about 900g monsters. So even though your wife won't be carrying, or wearing, the bins, she might find a big difference between holding up the 482g (17 oz) of the Yosemite and the 280g (<10 oz) of a 8x25 reverse porro, such as the Olympus.
Michael