I found the experience interesting, some people were more than happy to help, point things out, answer questions (silly or just the kind of things a novice might ask) others, didn't make eye contact and gave me the impression that unless I had the right gear and was a signed up twitcher, that I was a waste of space.
Allan Cameron, fat guy, cheap equipment and prone to asking silly questions.
Allan, you are not alone. My biggest downfall is my inability to afford a scope and I mainly rely on my bins, which I invested in a year ago.
I enjoy getting out and do my homework before going anywhere. ie reading about regular birds at each location and then look at field guides before setting out. I was at Tyninghame on Friday in the hope of seeing the semi-p but was satisfied with IDing my 1st Dunlins, 2 Curlew Sandpipers and a Ringed Plover using 2 reference books that I always carry with me. However, I do get infuriated because I know I see other species, but I am unable to be satisfied enough to 'tick' them. I sometimes get down about it, but, often, another opportunity for that species comes around which allows a firm ID. (Apparently the first few years of birding are the best when you can still get lifers regularly...?)
On the way back from Tyninghame I popped into the lagoons at Musselburgh and on arrival I was delighted to see loads of waders, but again most I couldn't get a firm ID on with my bins. However, 2 very helpful guys turned up and allowed me use of their scopes and gave me some pointers. I am always grateful when this happens, especially when not on my usual patch, seeing birds that to me are lifers or unusual. I try to return the favour on my usual patch when I bump in to visitors and they are looking for guidance on IDs or where to see a particular species.
I don't go out birding expecting to be told what I am looking at as I enjoy the IDing challenge. However, its always nice for someone to confirm what I'm looking at. I try and avoid starting conversations along the lines of 'Is that a...' but just be friendly and comment on 'lots about today' or something similar. The response you get can then gauge whether you dare ask a silly Q or not!
Do you use sightings listed on websites - for example the Lothian birding site - to confirm your sightings? I find this a good option.
Maybe you and I should meet up and ask each other silly Qs all day long to see who gets bored first:t:
EDIT: After typing the above, I went on a hunt for cheap, but worthwhile scopes. Found one of these second hand in the For Sale section:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Celestron-U...1_fkmr1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1284399156&sr=8-1-fkmr1
£70 incl P&P. Just hope its good enough for what I need.